Safety Plan
What is Family Violence?

Family violence is a power imbalance, where one person tries to control another. The aggressor often uses intimidation, fear and abuse to maintain that control. Many people believe that family violence is only physical abuse. However, family violence takes many different forms. It may also be psychological, sexual, financial or spiritual.

Physical Abuse

Includes hitting, pinching, slapping, pushing, punching, kicking, burning, stabbing or shooting. It may also include threats to cause harm.

Verbal Abuse

Sometimes referred to as emotional or psychological abuse. Name calling, jealousy, isolation from family and friends, and threats to leave the relationship or to commit suicide if the victim does not co-operate.

SEXUAL ABUSE

Unwanted touching or sexual activity. It may include control over birth control, forced pregnancies or abortions and transmission of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs).

FINANCIAL Abuse

When an individual uses finances to control another individual. This could include forcing a person to hand over all or part of their salary or by denying someone access to their own finances.

SPIRITUAL ABUSE

When an individual uses religious or spiritual matters to control another, such as forcing another to follow a particular faith or give up their religion.

REMEMBER THAT:
Family Violence can occur in any home regardless of culture, ethnicity or family wealth/income and is not acceptable.
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Safety Plan

Phone Numbers
Have important phone numbers you may need with you.

Mobile
Get a mobile phone and keep it safe. Work and Income may be able to help you get one.
Documents
Have copies of important personal documents such as birth certificates, passports, driver's license, bank or insurance details.
Emergency
You could apply for a Protection Order, we can help you with advice on this.
Tell someone
Tell a trusted friend or neighbour if you think you have fears for your safety.
Make a Plan
Make a plan and practice this for when violence occurs. Think about the safest place to run to - somewhere away from weapons, and where you can get outside (away from bathrooms, kitchens and garages).
Bank Account
Open your own bank account and try and save a little each week.
HIDE MY VISIT
Knowing how to keep safe online has become an important survival skill. We’ve put together some information to help show you how.
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